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Welcome To Kink 101 Consent And Negotiation

*Consent Negotiation*

Welcome to kink! 

Being new in the BDSM/Kink community can be difficult and confusing! A million people have advice for you on how you need to act and what is expected of you. It’s such an incredible individual journey and there is so much to learn. 

The good news is that’s it’s meant to be fun!

So come and join me for an afternoon of getting to know what, where, when and how. Which questions to ask to get off to a good start. 

Creating a safe space to play in where we can hear each other’s voices and respond to not only our needs but the needs of our partner is the goal of this intamacy workshop. 

What is consent?

Consent is permission to do something. Something as simple as:

“Can I kiss you?”

“Yes, you can kiss me, I would like that”; or “Thank you but no thank you.”

Consent involves a shared decision – one person asks for something, or asks to do something, and the other person responds with yes, no, or I don’t know.

As a society, we’ve decided one person can’t just take what they want or do what they want to another person. Every YES must be freely and enthusiastically given, otherwise there is no consent. A NO is always a no, regardless of the circumstances.

A key element of the workshop will be the distinction between negotiation and consent. Negotiation differs from consent in that consent asks a partner for a yes or no approval, while negotiation is the establishment of certain limits and safewords. It is also a way to discuss what each partner wants from the sexual /kink relationship.

Negotiation is not just for kink. 

Consent and negotiation can be part of your every day life and are important tools to have in your pocket. 

It’s a way to open up communication and trust.

Along with a lesson in these important basics; the dungeon will then be used along with some very cool items from @theplaybox for some practical play experience after the theory. 

Both singles and couples are welcome.

The event will be hosted at Play With Me in Lonehill.

I will be giving away 5 free tickets to the first 5 people that can’t afford the entry fee, but feel they would benefit from the experience. Please DM to discuss and claim. 0649512738 or @Ms_Kitten_ on fet.

About your host: 

Ms_Kitten is both a performer and educator with a passion for healthy exploration of sexual identity and relationships. While spending time in different areas of kink she has a lifetime of experience and perspective. One of the things she is the most passionate about is sharing knowledge and to give mutual aid that helps strengthen our local communities. So where possible she tries to pass along knowledge and skills she has learnt as so many have done before her. 

Ms_Kitten_ is a creative sadist and fetish artist with a love of latex, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum welcomes you to her play box. An experienced top and kink educator who films fetish porn and brings an honest look at consent and negotiation needed to create a scene.


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