Chosen Family Dinner
Time & Location
26 Dec 2025, 18:00 – 23:00
Casa Kink Dungeon, 4 Engine Ave, Montague Gardens, Cape Town, 7441, South Africa
About the event
For many, the festive season can be a complicated time, full of expectations, family tension, and the ache of not being fully seen or accepted for who we are. Between forced cheer, awkward dinners, and emotional exhaustion, it can start to feel more like an endurance marathon than a celebration.
Our Chosen Family Dinner is the antithesis of that. It’s a soft landing at the end of the year. A night to rest, reconnect, and simply be. Bring your leftovers, your stories, your laughter, and your authentic self. No pretence, no pressure, no performance, just good food, warm company, and the gentle joy of being surrounded by people who see and accept you exactly as you are.
TIME: Friday 26th December 6.00pm – 11.00pm.
DRINKS & SNACKS: Bring a plate of food to share. Please bring your own drinks and snacks. There is no food or drinks available for sale. There will be ice, glasses, coffee and tea.
BRING: Your curiosity and exploration of sexual and kink adventure and understanding of consent. If you plan to play bring your play toys, condoms and lube.
TICKETS: R100 at www.casakinkza.com/event and at the door
IMPORTANT DETAILS:
- Consent and Safety: Our priority is creating a safe and respectful environment. All participants must adhere to the rules of consent and boundaries.
- BYOT (Bring Your Own Toys): While we will provide some equipment, we encourage you to bring your favorite toys and gear.
- Age Restriction: This event is strictly 18+
- Explicit Exposure: This is an adult only event with sexually explicit displays and play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. In addition, this is a kinky event so there will be public BDSM and other fetish play. If witnessing overt sexual or kinky behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would suggest this may not be the event for you.
- Play free social spac: Our social space is a play-free social zone for those who prefer not to be overly exposed to sex and kink. Please note that you should expect to still see nudity in this space.
- Intoxication: We have a zero tolerance of intoxicated behaviour. There is an outside space for smoking of tabacco and 420. We strongly discourage play under the influence, and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.
- Safer Space: Casa Kink strives to provide a safe space for open fetish events where body positivity and sex positivity are safely celebrated in all their forms, and where people are encouraged to express themselves and their kinks without fear of judgement or abuse. We provide a safer space and emotional and physical safety are our paramount concerns.
- Inclusivity: The space is inclusive of all identities, including (but not limited to) sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, race, relationship style, kink preference, religion and culture. Right of Admission is reserved and the organisers decision is final.
- Consent: We follow Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink (PRICK). Please ensure you undertake negotiation for all plays at our venue and events. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, including in the middle of a play. We will have Consent Monitors at the event.
We look forward to welcoming you to our kinky collective.
