Swingers PlayDay
Time & Location
17 Dec 2025, 11:00 – 18:00
Casa Kink Dungeon, 4 Engine Ave, Montague Gardens, Cape Town, 7441, South Africa
About the event
This summer, Casa Kink opens its doors to the daylight. Join us for PlayDays, relaxed daytime gatherings designed for exploration, learning, and connection through the softer side of kink. Whether you’re taking a break from work, off for the holidays, or just craving community, PlayDays are your chance to unwind in the dungeon while the sun’s still up.
Each PlayDay runs from 11am to 6ish, with an easy flow through the day:
- Coffee and Kink Clinic – Start the day with open conversation. These informal chats are a space to ask questions, share experiences, and discuss everything from negotiation to aftercare, communication, boundaries, and beyond.
- The Lab: How Do You Like It? Talking about what you want shouldn’t be awkward, it should be hot, confident, and a gateway to better pleasure for everyone. How Do You Like It? is a one-hour, fast-paced workshop designed especially for swingers who want to level up their communication with new partners. Whether you’re seasoned in the lifestyle or just getting comfortable, this session will help you build the skills to negotiate desires, boundaries, and pleasure in a way that feels natural, sexy, and deeply consensual.We’ll explore quick negotiation tools, how to ask for what you enjoy, how to discover someone else’s yeses, and how to navigate the first few minutes with a new partner so everyone feels safe, excited, and ready to play. Expect practical tips, easy scripts, body-positive communication strategies, and a few cheeky exercises to get you thinking. Designed to be fun, welcoming, and accessible to all experience levels, How Do You Like It? gives you the tools to create hotter, clearer, more mutually satisfying play… with every new partner you meet.
- Kinky Creators – After the workshop, join us for a relaxed lunch (bring your own) and you can practise your new skills, connect with others whilst we do some body paint (using paints and chocolate). A relaxed creative space where craft is sexy. Join in on a group body painting or collaborate with others on sensual, playful creations.
- At any point through the day, if the chemistry is right, move into a play space to put it all into action.
- Sundown Sessions – From 4pm we will wind down together with music and conversation. A great Meet and Greet where only sex positive people are present and conversations don’t need to be cryptic and if the energy is right the play space is open.
- Work from the Dungeon – Need to stay connected to the default world? We’ve got Wi-Fi, comfy corners, and quiet spots where you can answer emails or make a call, all without leaving the vibe.
PlayDays are about ease, intimacy, and exploration — a slower, softer kind of exploration where learning, play, and connection all blend together.
Come for an hour or stay all day. Come to learn, to craft, to connect, or just to be. Come play in the daylight.
If you have ideas or suggestions for our PlayDays and topics, please reach out so we can discuss.
IMPORTANT DETAILS:
- Consent and Safety: Our priority is creating a safe and respectful environment. All participants must adhere to the rules of consent and boundaries.
- BYOT (Bring Your Own Toys): While we will provide some equipment, we encourage you to bring your favorite toys and gear.
- Age Restriction: This event is strictly 18+
- Explicit Exposure: This is an adult only event with sexually explicit displays and play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. In addition, this is a kinky event so there will be public BDSM and other fetish play. If witnessing overt sexual or kinky behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would suggest this may not be the event for you.
- Play free social spac: Our social space is a play-free social zone for those who prefer not to be overly exposed to sex and kink. Please note that you should expect to still see nudity in this space.
- Intoxication: We have a zero tolerance of intoxicated behaviour. There is an outside space for smoking of tabacco and 420. We strongly discourage play under the influence, and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.
- Safer Space: Casa Kink strives to provide a safe space for open fetish events where body positivity and sex positivity are safely celebrated in all their forms, and where people are encouraged to express themselves and their kinks without fear of judgement or abuse. We provide a safer space and emotional and physical safety are our paramount concerns.
- Inclusivity: The space is inclusive of all identities, including (but not limited to) sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, race, relationship style, kink preference, religion and culture. Right of Admission is reserved and the organisers decision is final.
- Consent: We follow Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink (PRICK). Please ensure you undertake negotiation for all plays at our venue and events. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, including in the middle of a play. We will have Consent Monitors at the event.
Come for an hour or stay all day.
Come to learn, to craft, to connect, or just to be.
Come play in the daylight.
