Lipstick and Boundaries
About the event
A women-centred, sex-positive gathering
This is an evening designed for all people who identify as women, as well as non-binary and gender-diverse folk who feel aligned with a women-centred space. It is a space rooted in consent, curiosity, softness, and agency. Where you are invited to arrive exactly as you are.
We’ll begin gently and intentionally, building comfort and connection before opening into an evening of socialising, flirtation, and optional play.
What to expect
- A sexy, confidence-building icebreaker We’ll start with a sensual movement workshop. This is less about performance and more about embodiment, exploring how it feels to move with intention, to give and receive attention, and to inhabit your body with confidence. Participation is always optional, with clear boundaries and consent woven throughout.
- Structured connection (without the awkwardness) Next, we’ll move into a light, playful round of “speed” getting-to-know-you conversations. Everyone will be asked the same thoughtfully chosen questions, creating ease, equality, and space for genuine connection, whether flirtatious, friendly, or somewhere in between.
- Open socialising & play As the evening unfolds, structure gives way to choice. Mingle, flirt, cuddle, chat, observe, or play, at your own pace. The space will be clearly zoned, consent-forward, and hosted throughout. Watching is welcome. Saying no is celebrated. Leaving early is valid.
- Soft landing & aftercare We’ll close gently, with space to decompress, hydrate, and reconnect with yourself before heading back into the world.
Who This Space Is For
This event is a women-centred space.
All people who identify as women are welcome, including cis and trans women. We also warmly welcome non-binary and gender-diverse people who feel aligned with, and comfortable in, a women-centred space.
Our guiding principle is simple:
If you feel that you belong here, you probably do.
We trust people to know their own identities and to make thoughtful choices about the spaces they enter.
This space is:
- Inclusive of women (cis and trans) and non-binary folk
- Consent-led and pressure-free
- Sex-positive but not performative
- Playful, intentional, and warmly hosted
This space is not:
- A pickup event
- A performance stage
- A place where participation or touch is expected
- Come to explore, to connect, to witness, or simply to be in the room with other delicious, curious humans.
DATE: Friday 27 February 2026
TIME: 8pm – 1am
VENUE: Casa Kink Dungeon, 4 Engine Avenue, Montague Gardens
TICKETS: R300pp available here or at the door.
DRESS: Wear something that makes you feel good in your body. Bring your boundaries. Curiosity encouraged.
Bring:
- Your own drinks (glasses and ice will be provided)
- Some snacks to share – finger foods are ideal
- Your toys, lube, gloves, dental dams etc
IMPORTANT DETAILS:
- Consent and Safety: Our priority is creating a safe and respectful environment. All participants must adhere to the rules of consent and boundaries.
- BYOT (Bring Your Own Toys): While we will provide some equipment, we encourage you to bring your favorite toys and gear.
- Age Restriction: This event is strictly 18+
- Explicit Exposure: This is an adult only event with sexually explicit displays and play. Both nudity and sexual play are encouraged, but by no means required. In addition, this is a kinky event so there will be public BDSM and other fetish play. If witnessing overt sexual or kinky behaviour makes you uncomfortable, we would suggest this may not be the event for you.
- Play free social space: Our social space is a play-free social zone for those who prefer not to be overly exposed to sex and kink. Please note that you should expect to still see nudity in this space.
- Intoxication: We have a zero tolerance of intoxicated behaviour. There is an outside space for smoking of tabacco and 420. We strongly discourage play under the influence, and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.
- Safer Space: Casa Kink strives to provide a safe space for open fetish events where body positivity and sex positivity are safely celebrated in all their forms, and where people are encouraged to express themselves and their kinks without fear of judgement or abuse. We provide a safer space and emotional and physical safety are our paramount concerns.
- Inclusivity: The space is inclusive of all identities, including (but not limited to) sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, race, relationship style, kink preference, religion and culture. Right of Admission is reserved and the organisers decision is final.
- Consent: We follow Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink (PRICK). Please ensure you undertake negotiation for all plays at our venue and events. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, including in the middle of a play. We will have Consent Monitors at the event.
