Description

Impact Jam – Bare Handed Spanking

About the event

Impact play is one of the most primal and connective forms of kink, rhythm, breath, anticipation, sensation, trust. Our new Impact Jam series is a space to explore that conversation in community, building skill, awareness, and empathy over time.

This jam series will rotate focus areas, from floggers and paddles to canes and creative implements, offering opportunities to deepen technique, negotiation skills, body awareness, and aftercare practices. Each session will spotlight a particular style while still allowing room for open exploration.

Our first gathering begins at the beginning: Bare Handed Spanking.

There is an intimacy and immediacy to skin-on-skin impact that no toy quite replicates. In this session, we’ll explore the foundations, body positioning, hand placement, pacing, warm-up techniques, reading responses, building intensity safely, and caring for both your own hands and your partner’s body. We’ll also touch on the emotional tone of spanking, playful, grounding, cathartic, ritual, and how intention shapes experience.

You do not need to arrive with a partner. In fact, we actively encourage those who primarily identify as Tops to spend time receiving as well as giving. Feeling impact in your own body can deepen empathy, refine your aim and pacing, and strengthen your ability to attune to a partner’s experience. Skill grows faster when understanding flows both ways.

Expect:

  • A consent-forward container
  • Guided foundational instruction for the focus style
  • Space to negotiate and practice
  • Peer learning and community support
  • Open jam time to integrate what you’ve explored

Bring comfortable clothing, curiosity, and a willingness to communicate. Whether you are new to impact or looking to refine your technique, this jam is about building embodied understanding — one strike, one breath, one conversation at a time.

TIME: Third Tuesday every month 7.00pm – 10.00pm, guided session starts at 7.30pm

DRINKS & SNACKS: Please bring your own drinks and snacks. There is no food or drinks available for sale. There will be ice, glasses, coffee and tea.

BRING: Your curiosity and understanding of consent. If you have rope, please bring, but there will be rope available if you don’t

TICKETS: R100 at www.casakinkza.com/event and at the door

This is NOT a play party it is an impact jam, and all play will be confined to the main Dungeon space.

IMPORTANT DETAILS:

  • Consent and Safety: Our priority is creating a safe and respectful environment. All participants must adhere to the rules of consent and boundaries.
  • BYOT (Bring Your Own Toys): While there is some rope available for use, we encourage you to bring your favorite rope and don’t forget your safety shears.
  • Age Restriction: This event is strictly 18+
  • Explicit Exposure: This is an adult only event with explicit displays and BDSM play. This is NOT a play party it is an educational experience.
  • Play free social space: Our social space is a play-free social zone for those who need a break.
  • Intoxication: We have a zero tolerance of intoxicated behaviour. There is an outside space for smoking of tabacco and 420. We strongly discourage play under the influence, and you may be asked to leave if you are causing a disturbance. NO refunds will be given in cases like these.
  • Safer Space: Casa Kink strives to provide a safe space for open fetish events where body positivity and sex positivity are safely celebrated in all their forms, and where people are encouraged to express themselves and their kinks without fear of judgement or abuse. We provide a safer space and emotional and physical safety are our paramount concerns.
  • Inclusivity: The space is inclusive of all identities, including (but not limited to) sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, race, relationship style, kink preference, religion and culture. Right of Admission is reserved and the organisers decision is final.
  • Consent: We follow Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink (PRICK). Please ensure you undertake negotiation for all plays at our venue and events. Consent can be withdrawn at any point in time, including in the middle of a play. We will have Consent Monitors at the event.

Come curious, leave more attuned, to your hands, your body, and the people you play with.

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