Non-Monogamous Collective – The Information in Discomfort
About
Cape Town’s non-monogamous community continues to grow, and our monthly Non-Monogamous Collective brings together people exploring open relationships, polyamory, relationship anarchy, swinging, and other forms of consensual non-monogamy. Whether you’re just starting your journey or have years of experience, you’ll find a welcoming space to connect, learn, and share experiences.
Event Details
- When: First Wednesday of every month
- Time: 6:00 PM – 11:00 PM
- Workshop: 7:30 PM
- Venue: Casa Kink Dungeon, 4 Engine Avenue, Montague Gardens
- Tickets: R100 online or at the door
Workshop
The Information in Discomfort: Using Difficult Emotions as Tools for Growth in ENM
This month’s round-table discussion explores emotions such as jealousy, envy, insecurity, resentment, and fear as valuable sources of information rather than signs of failure. Together we’ll discuss what these emotions can reveal about our needs, boundaries, values, attachment patterns, communication, and personal growth. Open to both newcomers and experienced practitioners.
What’s Included
Your R100 entry includes:
- Access to the Casa Kink dungeon and play spaces for the full evening (arrive anytime between 6:00 PM and 11:00 PM).
- A monthly educational workshop, discussion, demonstration, or information session.
- An opportunity to meet like-minded people, reconnect with friends, negotiate future play, or simply socialise in a welcoming community.
What to Bring
- Your own drinks and a small plate of snacks to share (tea, coffee, ice and glasses are provided).
- If you plan to play, bring your own toys, condoms and lube (BYOT encouraged).
Important Information
- Consent: Casa Kink follows the PRICK (Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink) model. Touch, flirtation and play are never assumed and must always be negotiated.
- Play Spaces: The dungeon includes social areas, cuddle spaces, exhibitionist/voyeur areas, and private and semi-private play spaces.
- Play-Free Social Area: Available for those who prefer conversation and community without participating in play.
- Adult Environment: This is an 18+ event where nudity, BDSM, fetish play and sexual activity may be visible, but participation is always optional.
- Intoxication: Zero tolerance for intoxicated behaviour. Smoking is permitted in the designated outdoor area.
- Inclusivity: Casa Kink is committed to providing a body-positive, sex-positive, and inclusive space for people of all identities, relationship styles, cultures, and experience levels.
