Cape Town’s non-monogamous community has been growing, and our monthly Non-Monogamous Collective brings together a welcoming group of people with opportunities to connect, learn, and share experiences.
Whether you’re exploring open relationships, polyamory, relationship anarchy, swinging, or any other form of consensual non-monogamy, you’re welcome regardless of where you are on your journey.
Deconstructing RA: Creating Structure Beyond Our Default Systems
This workshop explores Relationship Anarchy (RA) as both a philosophy and a lived practice. Together, we’ll unpack core principles such as autonomy, intentional communication, and questioning the social assumptions that shape how we relate to one another.
Rather than treating RA as the absence of structure, we’ll explore how intentional relationships can be built consciously instead of inherited automatically. We’ll discuss internal biases, learned expectations, and the tension that can arise when personal values meet real-life relationship dynamics.
The discussion also extends into kink, BDSM, and alternative relationship styles, exploring how RA can inform power exchange, negotiated agreements, and relationship structures while maintaining clarity, care, and accountability.
Whether you’re completely new to these ideas or have years of experience, this workshop offers space for honest reflection, practical integration, and shared learning.
Your R100 entry includes:
If you have ideas or suggestions for future collective topics, we’d love to hear from you.
This space is rooted in PRICK (Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink) consent. Unlike some swinging spaces where consent may be assumed, all touch, flirtation, and play must always be explicitly negotiated.
Whether you’re solo-poly, in an open relationship, exploring for the first time, or simply curious, this is a space to meet like-minded people and build community.
Casa Kink prioritises a safe and respectful environment. We follow the PRICK (Personal Responsibility in Consensual Kink) model, and consent may be withdrawn at any time. Consent Monitors will be present throughout the event.
Some equipment is available, but guests are encouraged to bring their own favourite toys and gear.
This event is strictly for adults aged 18 and over.
This is an adult-only event where nudity, BDSM, and sexually explicit play may be visible within the dungeon areas. Participation is never required. If you’d prefer less exposure to play, you’re welcome to remain within the social spaces.
Our social area is a play-free zone for those wanting conversation and connection away from active scenes. Please note that nudity may still be present.
We maintain a zero-tolerance policy toward intoxicated behaviour. Smoking areas are available outside for tobacco and 420 use. Anyone behaving in a disruptive or unsafe manner may be asked to leave without refund.
Casa Kink is committed to creating a body-positive, sex-positive, and inclusive environment where people can explore relationships, identity, and sexuality without fear of judgement or harassment. The space welcomes people of all genders, sexualities, relationship styles, races, cultures, religions, and experience levels. Right of admission is reserved.
